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There are scores of people who have graciously shared their Self(s) Healing miracles and opinions of overcoming many obstacles that blocked inner peace, or other miraculous transformations that have occurred. We hope you take the time to watch, listen and read. Feel the heart of all SHE offers through their words.
Since 1987, the year Rhonda Lenair began offering her ministration that evolved into what is known today as the Self(s) Healing Experience™ SHE, scores of people have sent Rhonda and her late husband Barry their unsolicited letters of gratitude. Many people have expressed their desire to share their stories, and personal accounts of what they witnessed with Rhonda.
The purpose of including these Experiential Reports is to acknowledge and thank all the people who have shared their personal stories and opinions. As you read these reports, do not misconstrue that what SHE offers is an addiction treatment or therapy service: it is not. SHE is a nonmedical experience that primes one to attain Self(s) enlightenment and its objective is to attain inner peace. These reports are not intended to make any claims that this website and/or SHE can be used to diagnose, treat, mitigate, cure or prevent any emotional or mental problem or disease, medical condition or addiction.
SHE does not diagnose or prescribe for medical or psychological conditions nor claim to prevent, treat, mitigate or cure such conditions; SHE does not provide diagnosis, care, treatment or rehabilitation of individuals, nor apply medical, mental health or human development principles.
The information on this site has not been clinically proven or evaluated by the FDA. We also have no scientific evidence to prove or suggest that the reported client experiences are typical, but we do expect that the reports represent a range of the experiences that may be expressed.
What someone experiences through what SHE offers can greatly differ and the experience unique to the individual, thus no claims, promises or guarantees are made or implied about the average, typical or expected experience.
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James, New York
“Dear Rhonda and Barry:
I have battled an alcohol addiction for almost 30 of my 50 years on this planet. I have tried diets, AA meetings and private therapy, etc. – all of which were exercised by choice, and then when the DWI’s started, mandated by law. None of the above had worked for me and, as a matter of fact, seemed to have accelerated my consumption.
I was very skeptical about Rhonda and her technique. I searched every available avenue of information to see if I could find any fraudulent writings on her. As my addiction did not want to let go of me, this was an endless quest for me and my addiction to stay as it were. Even up to the day before my visit with Rhonda, I was looking for an excuse to not end my habit. I went alone and actually was dissuaded by friends to pursue this kind of treatment.
All I can tell you is what I tell others. In the first short session I had, I did not even know I had been affected by your treatment. All I knew that when I was done, I just wanted to get something to eat. I did not experience the shakes or the withdrawal I would normally get when approaching the 24 hour alcohol-free period. I did not even realize that I didn’t drink that first day, probably the first time in 20 years: It was as if everything was normal.
The way I express the feeling to friends is that Rhonda performs bloodless surgery. She is able to reach inside of you and remove the spiritual equivalent of a defective organ which secrets the craving bile. Suddenly, with the organ gone, there was no need to neutralize the bile with alcohol. End of story: as of May 8, 2007, it will have been 1 ½ years.
My only encounter with booze since then was an accidental drink taken at a function where all I knew was I felt something unpleasant, but what I drank did not look or taste like an alcoholic beverage. I simply continued the evening with food and that was it. The next day when I asked what that was in those small cans (which I thought was that caffeinated ‘Red Bull’) I was told it was ‘Sofia’, which is some sort of white wine concoction. White wine was my drink of choice when I was drinking. I must say it bothered me at first that some alcohol entered my system, but I had no desire to continue drinking it and I am not counting that as a ‘slip” or any such nonsense. All it was is a tribute to the successful work of Rhonda and her incredible gift.
If people shy away from this because of the inherent nature of fearing what one does not understand, then they are doing themselves a grave injustice. Rhonda is here for a reason and this skeptic (me) came to be cured and has surpassed the test.
Rhonda, thank you so much for your healing work.”
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
I am not sure what you did to me during those five days I spent in Vermont in January but I am truly a different person. Not only have I been totally sober, but I have also lost 30 pounds so far on my diet (which I actually enjoy) and all my vital stats have improved significantly according to my doctor. My energy level is as good as I ever remember and if it weren’t for my osteoarthritis (it runs in my family) and herniated disc, I would be running a 5K.
The one thing I remind myself of is how bad I felt in my previous life and how bad it was for maintaining healthy relationships with my family and friends. Obviously, my outlook has greatly improved.
Again, thank you for all you did form my family and me. From the bottom of my heart, it is greatly appreciated.”
Greetings Barry & Rhonda!
I just want to pass along another tale of seeming “miraculous” change….I read about so many there, on your site before coming, in the numerous binders in your waiting area with hundreds and hundreds of others’ stories, especially the ones from Norm- those are all extremely inspiring to me, and I want to give you my experiences, thus far in such a “short” period of time…
First of all, as is the case with most if not pretty much probably every person who comes to see you Rhonda ~ the transformation you facilitated is beautifully baffling. Bafflingly beautiful!! 🙂 As you know, I came to you after years of problems with alcohol; years of much drinking, followed by periods of abstinence where I “proved” to myself that it was “under control”; followed by the inevitable, yes, you can call it a slide back into the same habits. Legal issues were the least of my problems as a result of my drinking- and the arrests/penalties/sanctions I subjected myself to over my years of drinking were SUBSTANTIAL. When I came to see you, Rhonda, I had been drinking pretty much daily for, oh, at least 6 months, prior to that regularly and routinely for at least a couple/few years, being on the tail end of what I call “Phase I” of my life, which involved elements familiar to many in major life upheaval; marital dissolution, career/job difficulties and resultant lack of abundance, etc. etc.
At the end of my three sessions with you, Rhonda ~ it was simply gone. Despite that you told me things about myself (and my mother about herself, as she accompanied me on this journey), that I was intrigued by and found pretty incredible that you could know – despite all of that, as far as the alcohol issue went, I did not know at the time if I actually felt different, or not. I will say that I had never been one who experienced what I would characterize as “cravings”, even when I was drinking pretty much daily; it would be more like a nightly routine. And I recall reading many others’ writing of their experiences saying the same; that it just took a couple of days, maybe into their return home, for it to register that the desire, craving, whatever it was that previously led to the drinking- that it was just gone. And that is what I experienced.
Again, I love and appreciate you both,
Barry and Rhonda:
I was going to say, I feel like a million bucks, but now that I think about it, I feel like a billion bucks!
I feel like I am living in a different universe now – the world hasn’t changed since I saw you, but I have.
Wow – what a miracle!
I have NO interest or desire for alcohol – it seems foolish and absurd now, that people drink so much – I went to a couple of parties where people were drinking and getting stupid and I had a great time, with no temptation – amazing.
I have so much energy and clarity now, which I really need to get through all the challenges I face in just living.
Later – more to come as life unfolds anew…
Bill, New Hampshire
One year ago today I went to your office a cigarette smoker and left a non-smoker. During the year I have not had even the slightest desire for a cigarette, and I haven’t climbed the walls. I feel like I’ve always been a non-smoker, but I know this is not true. I smoked my first cigarette at age 7, and smoked for 56 years.
Since 1977 I’ve seriously tried everything I could find to stop smoking with little or no success. I’ve enrolled in every stop-smoking program I’d ever heard of; some 2 or 3 times. Over and over I’ve quit cold turkey plus acupuncture and hypnotism many times. I felt hopeless, and I knew cigarettes were killing me, but I couldn’t stop — until I met you.
You have opened a whole new life for me. I feel wonderful; better than I’ve felt for years. Losing 35 pounds by not eating sugar helped too.
Thank you Rhonda, Sincerely,”
Steven, New Hampshire
Thank you for the profound benefit of your healing touch. With your support, I have been able to free myself from the addictive grip of tobacco, and to re-engage my will.
Since February of this year, the nicotine devil had infested my mind and body with an unexpected vengeance. Unexpected, I say, because I quit cigarettes 14 years ago and never looked back – until last winter when I journeyed to the ancient sacred sights of Maya culture on the Yucatan Peninsula of Mexico.
By the time I was ready to return home, I had acquired a cigarette habit that steadily grew in intensity and unpleasantness. Though I am a person of strong will and firm discipline, I could not find the will to let go of tobacco. Just one treatment with you, though, and the overpowering grip of the tobacco was loosened.
God bless you and good luck with your work.
Just wanted to let you know I am feeling great. I have so much energy now and clarity of mind and enthusiasm for life. I never realized how much the alcohol was making me tired and numbing my emotions. Occasionally I want some wine but the desire passes away in moments, and then I forget about it. I can wine and dine with friends and I don’t even think about having a sip.
I feel so free now, and fearless in so many ways.
Tell Rhonda I am not lonely anymore (it was the topic of our last session). I thought I drank because I was lonely, but after being with Rhonda, I realized I was lonely because I was drinking. It kept me away from people. I still work alone, but now there are people everywhere in my life. People even smile at me now, when they didn’t before.
Everything is better. Thanks again!