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There are scores of people who have graciously shared their Self(s) Healing miracles and opinions of overcoming many obstacles that blocked inner peace, or other miraculous transformations that have occurred. We hope you take the time to watch, listen and read. Feel the heart of all SHE offers through their words.
Since 1987, the year Rhonda Lenair began offering her ministration that evolved into what is known today as the Self(s) Healing Experience™ SHE, scores of people have sent Rhonda and her late husband Barry their unsolicited letters of gratitude. Many people have expressed their desire to share their stories, and personal accounts of what they witnessed with Rhonda.
The purpose of including these Experiential Reports is to acknowledge and thank all the people who have shared their personal stories and opinions. As you read these reports, do not misconstrue that what SHE offers is an addiction treatment or therapy service: it is not. SHE is a nonmedical experience that primes one to attain Self(s) enlightenment and its objective is to attain inner peace. These reports are not intended to make any claims that this website and/or SHE can be used to diagnose, treat, mitigate, cure or prevent any emotional or mental problem or disease, medical condition or addiction.
SHE does not diagnose or prescribe for medical or psychological conditions nor claim to prevent, treat, mitigate or cure such conditions; SHE does not provide diagnosis, care, treatment or rehabilitation of individuals, nor apply medical, mental health or human development principles.
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“Hola, Rhonda and Barry!
Aaaah … the passage of time – it’s been 11 1/2 years since I’ve had a drink or craved alcohol. My sobriety is entirely due to Rhonda’s wonderful work. I’m currently in Cartagena, Columbia – an enchanting, historical city. I’ve very much enjoyed my trip to Columbia – have been white-water rafting (class 4+5), paragliding (my first time – amazing), and visited some beautiful colonial towns (Villa de Leyva and Barichara).
C. K., Massachusetts
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You have succeeded where others have failed. You have done what no other person, place or organization could do for me. You have allowed me freedom from addiction.
You have taken what I consider to be the worst case of alcoholism, the most treatment-resistant, non-yielding manifestation of the “disease” I have ever known (mine) and given me a breath and a chance to breathe.
I have been in recovery since 1993 and I’ve done the work faithfully, but it’s been either 1) on a good day, simple misery or 2) on a bad day, pain beyond imagining. So you have no idea how much of a relief you provided.
I believe in you and I have never believed in anyone or any treatment for this killer of a “disease”.
Thank you beyond words,”
“My first appointment with Rhonda was May 3, 2005 and I have never been so grateful to anyone or anything in my whole life. Before I saw Rhonda, I was a mess. I used to go into a binging and purging cycle on Rum and cokes and food on a nightly basis. This went on for years. For the last year and a half, I was bulimic throughout the day as well. I was in a living hell. I desperately wanted help – I knew there was no way out on my own – it was a continuing downward spiral leading God knows where.
I prayed and prayed for help; my biggest fear was to be without food and alcohol and still be suffering so badly. I just didn’t have the energy or anything left in me to deal with the pain, or even fathom an exhausting battle with alcohol and an eating disorder. From my frustrating and disappointing experiences with M.D.’s for heath issues, I didn’t trust a ‘network of psychotherapists’ to address and help me with heal my disorders. There was too much to my whole tangled web of problems. I didn’t have the energy to give it everything I had and to not be in the hands of people who were capable of helping me. I would have been left too depleted, as I was on my last thread as it was.
In addition, I had many food sensitivities that tied into my eating disorder – many foods really affected me negatively. I had seen dieticians and GI specialists in the past that were of no help. What I prayed for was the help I needed that would really work, and that wouldn’t be a battle mentally and physically.
In the summer of 2004 I looked into whatever treatment I could find on-line. When I found Rhonda’s site, I was ready to give it a try. My husband would not buy the fact that it would work. Months passes, and in the Spring we tried to get our insurance company to cover the in-patient treatment, but the only one they would cover was a 30-day detox treatment facility. There was no way I was going to such a cold institutional setting. I could not understand how someone begging God for help on a regular basis could have her prayers gone unanswered.
Shortly thereafter, we decided to go to Rhonda. I feel so blessed just thinking of how far I’ve come in year. I truly feel my prayers have been answered; my experience was everything that I had asked for and then some. I have no desire to drink or binge or purge. Yeah, sometimes life is hard – but who said it would be easy? But at least these barriers have been removed and I can get on with my life.
I am no longer in ‘purgatory’. I feel so much stronger mentally and physically, and I am excited about what life brings my way. I am able to experience true happiness (not all the time, of course), but it gets better by the day. Every night when I go to sleep, I thank God and whoever else helped guide me to Rhonda. It has been truly a blessing. When I am in Rhonda’s presence, there is such a warm feeling in my heart and knowingness that every- thing is going to be alright.
I wish that everyone who is suffering from addictions would have the opportunity for this healing. It makes me sad to think of how many people are out there suffering and I wish they would find their way to Rhonda.
Not a day goes by that I don’t think of how grateful I am to Rhonda and Barry. I am also grateful for God’s ‘unanswered prayers’, as shortly thereafter I was brought to where I belonged.
Rhonda and Barry, thank you, thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
Blessings to you both,”
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
There are not enough words to express my thanks to you for “literally” helping to save my life.
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
Thank You from the bottom of my heart. It has been 13 months now, and I am still sober!!! And, the most exciting part is, there is absolutely no desire to drink at all!! (And never has been.) Oddly enough on the very day of my one year anniversary I had to attend a business meeting (two days) in of all places Biloxi, MS.(in case your not aware that is the South’s version of Las Vegas or Atlantic City) It wasn’t a problem. I went back to my hotel room after the reception party and dinner and had the best time, by myself, reading a book and SOBER. To me this was a huge test because I knew there would be a lot of drinking (and there was) and it turned out to be a walk in the park. As you said Barry, I DON’T DRINK ANYMORE!!! And that’s the way I live my life now.
I can’t possibly express my gratitude or appreciation for everything you have done for me. You gave my life back to me!!! I have my family back! My career back! I’m regaining my financial freedom and life is better than ever. I like myself again. (I guess you can tell that I’m just a little excited.)
People that know me are truly amazed. Almost speechless. For 19 years I drank every day (not just 1 or 2 drinks, but passed out drunk). Alcohol ruled my life. It was my life! Now, it has no room in my life…. And for that I will be eternally grateful. I try not to let a day go by without at least saying a quick “Thank You” to my Lord Jesus Christ for sending you my way. Rhonda, you have a true gift!!!!! I will never forget the compassion and warmth you gave to Dad and myself. Thanks again for everything. May God Bless you and Barry now and in the future. Until next time…”
A. A., California
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
The results of my experience with Rhonda have been everything you said it would be and in my opinion borders on the miraculous. I have not consumed any alcohol for four months and I can now safely and confidently say that I am free from the grip of alcohol. Even more significantly, I no longer desire to partake of alcohol in any way. The inner addictive voice that once tried to negotiate with me by trying to convince that moderation or control were possible…surely one glass of wine is OK…has been completely eradicated. Freedom from this pattern was achieved from the first treatment with Rhonda.
My struggle with alcohol has been a very private and tortured one for the past seven years. I could feel much of my life force being used up in an attempt to “manage” the craving to drink so I wouldn’t “become” an alcoholic. But the fact is — I was one. Because this tendency conflicted with my lifelong path devoted to spiritual awakening, self-mastery, and the healing of others and self, it was a deep source of shame and self-judgment. I had been praying for some time for a miracle and I believe without a doubt that the healing work the two of you are engaged in was indeed an answer to my prayers. I am eternally grateful for the healing gifts that Rhonda has developed.
Please keep my name at the top of your list of seriously interested healers who wish to learn and practice the Lenair experience.
Many Blessings, Love and Gratitude,”
M. Day, Massachusetts
“I first saw Rhonda in January 1999. I haven’t craved or touched a cigarette since. I visited Rhonda again in June 2000. I haven’t touched alcohol since. It simply amazes me each day that regardless of my level of stress (and it’s usually quite high) I have never reached for a cigarette or drink. More importantly I have not wanted either one.
Along the way I also stopped drinking caffeine, biting my nails and eating meat. I implemented most of Rhonda’s recommendations into my daily life and it has been wonderful. I feel better, look better and I am gaining control of my life again! Rhonda has helped me to achieve some of the most important goals of my life and for that I am eternally grateful. I would highly recommend The Lenair Technique to anyone who needs a helpful hand.
Thank you Rhonda and Barry”
Hans, New Hampshire
“I am very pleased with the results, surprised, too. My interest in alcohol is zero. One interesting thing is that I rarely even think about alcohol – it just isn’t “there” in my mind. When it is, it’s just a fleeting thought, no stress about it at all. I even go to bars and restaurants with friends, they drink, I don’t. Easy.
I would recommend Rhonda and Barry to anyone with an alcohol issue.”
“Dear Ms. Lenair, On Monday, June 27 you treated me for alcohol addiction, this has been an on-going habit for 16 years… I signed myself into in-patient hospitals, stayed the required time…tried ‘cold turkey’, AA and last but not least was prayer. However, the compulsion was still there. Ms. Lenair, I want everyone to know that since the day of my consult/session in June, I no longer feel a craving to drink. Words cannot express to you my grateful heart.”
Dear Barry and Rhonda:
Awakening this morning to a sunny brisk day (by our standards) in Miami, my time with you at Lenair seems almost a mirage. . .
I cannot even begin to adequately thank you for the miracle of re-calibrating my self on all levels. It was the most powerful and transformative experience I’ve had in this lifetime; to feel simultaneously known in the deepest way and part of all facets of the world’s consciousness. To have the stricture of being shackled to alcohol–with all the irrevocable damage it’s caused in my life–miraculously lifted; that is the most profound miracle. A present of being IN the present from now on, instead of obsessing over a substance that has marred so much in my life.
Thank you, Rhonda, for exposing me to a vision of my self as vibrant and beautiful and individual and powerful and connected to the full richness of all in the world. The visual images you reflected will stay with me.
The two of you truly are creating miracles and reclaiming and transforming lives every day at Lenair. I am eager to share my experience with many others so that they can begin anew, free of addiction and full of promise.
With deepest gratitude and warmest wishes to you both,
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
So sorry for not dropping a note sooner to let you know how I’m doing. I successfully finished one year of sobriety in early May and can only say I am one so grateful for this new lease on life. It has made a world of difference and it is all thanks to Rhonda’s very special gift!!
I also wanted to mention that I passed your literature on to my primary care physician. He is a younger doctor and very open to alternative medicine. He was very interested when I explained the treatment I underwent at Lenair. I have also mentioned you to various friends.
Best wishes in your continued work with those of us afflicted with various ‘maladies’.
Take care, All my best,”
It’s been many months since my treatment for alcohol, and it has taken me this long to put into words what your treatment has meant to me. The results have been a daily presence in my life, however, and I have recommended you to many people, one of whom is my daughter who will be seeing you in October.
Your treatment was the beginning of what continues to be profound changes in my life. The effect of your therapy was instantaneous and absolute. This reality is a continuing source of wonder to me, and this amazing result has solidified my hard-to-come-by faith in forces we cannot see, and perhaps never will be able to quantify.
The long term effects have resulted in my undertaking to work with a shaman, to strengthen and deepen my spiritual connections and develop a permanent spiritual practice. I am also now adding Qi Gong to my ongoing yoga practice.
My life has been transformed, and I really don’t know how to thank you.”
J.H., New York
“Rhonda’s treatment for my alcohol problems was immediately and palpably evident by an internal sense of change – a mental and bodily difference. I no longer desired alcohol, nor have I since. Drinking just doesn’t exist for me these days, in that it’s no longer an issue, a worry, a problem, preoccupation, concern, drive or habit.
Though I’m still not sure I understand how Rhonda’s technique works, it has clearly affected much needed and welcome changes in my life. These changes were so very welcome in fact, that the day after my first session with Rhonda, while walking along the beach trying to define exactly what was different for me, I was overcome with such emotion and relief, I actually wept with exquisite joy when I grasped the full realization that I had been released from the virtual prison alcohol had become for me. I felt reborn, strong, whole, at peace, and ever so filled with awe and gratitude, not just for Rhonda’s amazing gift, but her willingness to use it for my benefit.
I have subsequently (and without the anesthesia of alcohol) been able to address all the same traumas, dramas, upsets and problems which are part of my life (and, I suspect, many people’s lives), with a sense of greater personal strength, power, serenity, and clarity I’ve not had for quite some time. My life just doesn’t seem so complicated or overwhelming anymore. It is full of wonder, joy and hope, and enormous appreciation for the miraculous turn-arounds that have come from my meeting Rhonda.”
B. E., Ohio
“Dear Rhonda and Barry;
I came to you full of hope and skepticism. I considered myself a hopeless alcoholic. I have been through four 30-day inpatient programs followed by AA and I failed each time. I had given up. For the year prior to seeing you, I drank every day. I was only sober long enough, to get healthy, so I could get to the liquor store.
I had my last drink on March 18th, 2000 and on the 19th I embarked on a cross-country trip, to see you. We had our first meeting on the 21st. I was not feeling very good and still a bit shaky. After our first session something was different. I was relaxed, at peace with myself, I cannot exactly describe it but I left your office believing in you, and your technique.
It’s been nearly a month [now 10 years] since we had our sessions and I still have not had a drink nor do I desire to have a drink. I often think about the way I was and my old lifestyle. I cannot figure out why I desired alcohol. The desire to drink does not exist today. I still think about alcohol but the desire to drink is just not there. This thinking is inconsistent with reaction to the other treatment programs I have been through. When I graduated from the thirty-day programs, I participated in, I knew intellectually not to drink. However, the desire to drink was still there.
Rhonda, your healing power is truly miraculous. I feel a burden has been lifted from my shoulders and there is a healthy future for me. Thank you so much. I am following through with your recommendations and I will stay in touch.”
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
“I was so full of skepticism when I arrived for my appointment at The Lenair Technique. Rhonda and Barry made a deep impression on me – they are my Angels. I still find it so hard to comprehend my feelings as I left – serene- with a calm spirit – something I hadn’t felt in what seemed like forever.
Here it is six months later and I am definitely not a skeptic any longer. What Rhonda did for me has totally surpassed my wildest expectations. I consumed alcohol on a nearly daily basis for so many years. I no longer had a life that didn’t involve alcohol. Since my hands-on treatment with Rhonda I have had no craving and no interest in consuming alcohol – for any reason. Rhonda and Barry saved my life. My life was headed for certain destruction. I cannot thank them enough for giving me a happy and healthy life. I love you Rhonda and Barry.”
M. Kelly, New York
Hello, Rhonda and Barry:
Yes, Yes, Yes! I would recommend my experience with The Lenair Healing Center to anyone. It changed my life when I was so scared that I thought there would be no way out for me, I could not control myself from drinking wine. I always felt myself to be a happy and full of life person, but the drinking was dragging me down into lots of depression. I have not even desired or touched wine or alcohol since coming to The Lenair Healing Center well over a year ago. You are the best! The real thing!
“Dear Rhonda and Barry: Just wanted to drop you a line and thank you for your help. It has been 8 months now since I came to you with a heavy drinking problem. There has been no urge to touch the stuff since then. I don’t know what you did, it’s just gone. You saved my life in more ways than one.
While I was there you warned me about ‘congestion’ around the heart. When I got home the doctors didn’t see anything wrong. Three months later I had chest pains. I now have two stents in my heart. One of them was a 99% blockage.
I thank God for you. I thank him for giving you these very unique abilities and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for nurturing them and using them in such a positive way.”
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
A short note to express my gratitude for your help at The Lenair Technique.
I came to you several months ago with a drinking problem. Through The Lenair Technique I have discovered new strength and balance in my life. I thought this would be a very difficult task to overcome, yet surprisingly it was one of the easiest transitions for me to process and understand.
Since my visits with Rhonda I have been in many social situations that old friends and new have questioned “why” I do not drink. I find that people are so interested in the “idea” of not drinking.
Friends who are closest to me have all commented on how proud they are of my recent change to be alcohol free. I owe a large part of this to Rhonda who shared her special gift with me. Thank you”.
I was desperately seeking help for my sister. We are very close and her alcohol addiction was destroying her life and my own drinking was escalating. I read an article in Elle magazine in November 2001 regarding the Lenair experience. Her story sounded like an answer to my prayers. Her technique was something different but I knew this would work! I trusted my gut-feeling and made an appointment for both of us.
The cost seemed high, but not anything like going to treatment centers, doctors, counselors, etc. All of these plus missed work add up to much more than Ronda’s fee. The peace of mind, the “no more cravings” or “no desire to drink” even when everyone else is drinking: Absolutely Priceless!
During the past four years, we have had two deaths in my family. Our mom died in December 2002 and six weeks later, my precious grandson, who was 5 months old, died of SIDS at my younger daughter’s home. My sister and I never thought about drinking through out this three-year span. My oldest daughter that lost her baby went to Rhonda for grief and to get off sleeping pills. My younger daughter went for grief and to stop drinking.
Rhonda has healed my whole family from addictions and grief! I have never felt such incredible love, peace, and healing and total acceptance in her presence. Her medical intuitive information was startling and correct! She told me which month to go to a specialist for glaucoma and in which eye it would appear. I went and I do have glaucoma in my left eye. She was right about which tooth would need a root canal and in which month the pain would show up. Recently, over the telephone, she said a change had just occurred in my right eye and to go immediately to check it. I had just been to the eye doctor the prior month, so when I went and told him what Rhonda had said, he was shocked. Sure enough, after doing the tests, glaucoma appeared in my right eye. If I had not gone to him at that time, I would have lost my eyesight!
Rhonda is my angel of healing and she can work miracles for you! I thank God every day that my family found you.
I didn’t know it at the time, but I feel it now, Rhonda touched my soul. That beautiful place we all come from, the whole. She heard my songs, felt my rhymes, and readjusted me whole. That longing, empty distant place I let myself control with alcohol and forgotten dreams. Rhonda released the darkness and I surrendered control. I am beginning to be whole.
It was slow at first, the changes and my thoughts, until one day, one fateful day, I realized Rhonda touched my soul. I feel myself vibrating at a frequency so unique. I can’t explain it but I know I am becoming whole and no longer have to drink and drown my woes away. The Universe sings again and remembers my Soul. The world is a better place because of Rhonda and her work and love. I can’t say enough so I continue to show the world the glory of evolving. Thank you from the very essence of my Soul. I love you, too.