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There are scores of people who have graciously shared their Self(s) Healing miracles and opinions of overcoming many obstacles that blocked inner peace, or other miraculous transformations that have occurred. We hope you take the time to watch, listen and read. Feel the heart of all SHE offers through their words.
Since 1987, the year Rhonda Lenair began offering her ministration that evolved into what is known today as the Self(s) Healing Experience™ SHE, scores of people have sent Rhonda and her late husband Barry their unsolicited letters of gratitude. Many people have expressed their desire to share their stories, and personal accounts of what they witnessed with Rhonda.
The purpose of including these Experiential Reports is to acknowledge and thank all the people who have shared their personal stories and opinions. As you read these reports, do not misconstrue that what SHE offers is an addiction treatment or therapy service: it is not. SHE is a nonmedical experience that primes one to attain Self(s) enlightenment and its objective is to attain inner peace. These reports are not intended to make any claims that this website and/or SHE can be used to diagnose, treat, mitigate, cure or prevent any emotional or mental problem or disease, medical condition or addiction.
SHE does not diagnose or prescribe for medical or psychological conditions nor claim to prevent, treat, mitigate or cure such conditions; SHE does not provide diagnosis, care, treatment or rehabilitation of individuals, nor apply medical, mental health or human development principles.
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L. Hodges, Texas
“Barry and Rhonda,
You are a miracle, an absolute miracle! I was very skeptical about coming to see you. When my sister told me about you I thought to myself, there is no way you could help me. I honestly believed no one could help me.
My background has been a long history of alcohol abuse. I have survived two head-on collisions where I went through the windshield. I survived two treatment centers, several DWI’s, a wrecked marriage, and the list goes on. I was at the point in my life that I could not stop drinking. I was going through a difficult time in my relationship with a wonderful man that I lived with for 13 years, my job was stressful and I was losing my best friend. AA was a drag and that program did not seem to help. I drank; I lost and received another DWI.
I guess my sister knew I was at my lowest point and knew that something had to be done. She saw your article in Elle magazine and decided to call. When she told me about you, I thought that you were a fake, another person to take my money and not help me. My sister assured me you were real and it wouldn’t hurt just to go see what the program was all about. Really, what have you got to lose? We can make it a vacation. So off we went, bravely, after September 11th.
When I first met you, Rhonda, I really didn’t feel any connection. I was still very skeptical. After the first session, I felt good. That evening, I did not want a drink at dinner. The second session, you told me events that happened early in life, people that I knew, etc. I certainly had not talked to you about anything in my life. You told me to go get my lungs x-rayed because it showed scarring. I didn’t believe you on that issue, but sure enough, my lungs were scarred. After the third session I was a believer but still skeptical that I would get back home and start drinking again.
I went to see Rhonda on February 8, 2002. I am happy to announce that I have not had a drink since then. I still have urges to drink, but they last only a minute, then I forget about them. I am eating healthier and feel much better. I guess the only downfall is I have this craving for sweets. I guess a few pounds is better than killing someone or myself!
I was a hopeless case and everyone had given up on me. I thank you, Rhonda, for giving me back my life! If you ever need a testimonial, I am the one. I am your miracle!
J. Anderson, Ohio
It has been 2 years to the day, I have not had a drink. This is will be my first testimonial ever written.
I am not sure how or what Ms. Lenair (Self) does but it works. The experience is not just what is ailing you, it is moving as a whole.
The experience at the Lenair clinic has forever changed me for the better. I am clear and balanced to ‘do’ in life, take action.
I will forever be humbled by the enlightenment I received and will always pass it along.
Hi Rhonda and Barry:
I have not spoken with you in a while now and I just wanted to take a moment to let you know how I am doing since my last visit to Vermont. I am so very happy to report that I have been alcohol free now for over a year!! Its simply amazing. My life has profoundly changed now that I am free from alcohol.
Making the decision to seek your help was the most important decision of my life because it saved my life. I cannot fully explain just what happened to me. However, what I do know is that after I left your office I no longer had any desire to drink. It vanished.
Note: I drank heavily for my entire life starting from age 15 to 52 — 37 years. I did not drink everyday – but most every day – I went to several different treatment centers- nothing seemed to work– alcohol was ruining my life and the down hill slide was rapidly accelerating. But that all changed on January 30 2009- that’s the day I lost my drinking problem- Rhonda you saved me that day.
I have certainly changed on the both inside and outside. In the past year I lost about 80 pounds. Now that I no longer have to deal with alcohol, I really place close attention on what I put in my body. I have been closely following the diet recommendations Rhonda outlined- its something I just do and it seems to have worked quite well for me.
I also, as part of a recommendation that Rhonda outlined, have been practicing Tai Chi. I found an excellent teacher in my area and have been studying over a year- about 1 hour a day on average. That seems to balance things out nicely.
I would STRONGLY encourage anyone seeking help to take the step and make an appointment with you. Don’t waste anymore time do it as soon as possible- Life is short and you might run out of chances—-
Thank you so much and I hope to talk with you soon.
Dear Barry and Rhonda,
Things are going wonderful here! I’m in the process of moving back home….Yay! I haven’t felt this good in years. You’ve helped me find such contentment.
My new life style changes are going VERY well. I am even down to only one medication for depression. No anxiety meds, no sleep meds, no non-alcohol meds, and no mood altering meds!!!! The Pranic healing and Qigong are so fascinating. I have even been taking classes again at my friend Victoria’s shop (spiritual, awakening, zen stuff) and getting intuitive massage. Finally getting mySELF back. I’ve even lost some weight already; bonus!
Here’s my new mantra I made; Love and Light in your Heart, bring Peace and Harmony to your Soul….
I hope you are both doing well. There hasn’t been a day go by when I don’t think of you both and, know that I am truly blessed for having found you. I’ll give you both a call the first week of March to find out if Rhonda still wants me to add horse chestnut to my supplement list.
Love & Light,
Bill, New Hampshire
Hi Rhonda and Barry:
I was thinking of you today as I realized I have been alcohol free for over 6 years. When I saw an article about Rhonda in the Boston Herald, I decided to give her a try. Everything else had failed for me. I have to admit I was extremely skeptical of her process as I really didn’t understand how she could help me to stop my alcohol addiction. But she did. It was like a miracle. Today I am a retired Federal worker and employed as a Professor at a prestigious college in Boston. This was always a dream of mine to be a College Professor. Also, I am involved with a wonderful women. Without Rhonda’s help, I am sure this would not have been possible as I would have been to dedicated to drinking every day.
Thank you for saving my life.
“When I was a little girl, I often fantasized about a fairy godmother appearing into my life and, with the touch of her magic wand, would take all my problems away. My fantasy finally came true when Rhonda placed her hands upon my head for a few powerful moments. To my disbelief, she freed me up from a devastating alcohol dependency.
My cravings were gone and my desire to drink on a daily basis, until totally intoxicated, vanished during that magical time. She gave me back my life and another chance to rediscover myself without the fear of relapsing into old patterns.
For this fresh start, I am eternally grateful to you and Barry. I especially admire you, Rhonda, for the courage you have to be who you are and for sharing your gift of love with mankind.”
“Call it a stroke of luck, synchronicity or Divine Providence but my running across the Lenair Healing Center’s website with it’s testimonials and audio of Rhonda’s inscrutable but deeply moving message, was an “aha” moment of the purest sort.
I had woken at 3am, as was my nightly ritual, unable to get back to sleep. This predictable 2-3 hour of torturous shame and self-loathing afforded a regular opportunity to indulge in a Googling frenzy of “alternative and alcoholism” or “holistic and addiction”; to meditate on my shortcomings as well as those of my family members, friends and colleague; to make plenty of resolutions to quit drinking for certain tomorrow; to worry about the state of my liver, brain, kidneys and general health; and to wonder how all the clients who come to me on their own non-traditional healing path would react if they knew I understood and experienced suffering in such a personal and first hand way. Probably with more compassion than I was capable of extending to myself, I realize now.
The next morning, I could hear the sensitivity and good nature in Barry’s voice as he made my appointment and gave me directions and instructions. I read and re-read the brochure filled with testimonials he sent and intuitively had a sense that “this is it” although I had been disappointed many times in the past with other therapies that did wonderful things, but didn’t cure my addiction. After struggling for 45 years with alcohol and the nuances of keeping the extent of that struggle a secret from everyone in my life, something was different with this process.
So, I showed up. My husband accompanied me, a bit bewildered and skeptical at first, but soon to be amazed at the simplicity of the process.
Rhonda opened up that deep well of universal love that you can see in her eyes as she explains the simple process of touching your forehead and speaking your truth as it comes through her, and the desire for anything but that truth disappears immediately. Gone. Forever.
In case you forget it, she’ll talk to you for a few minutes once in a while, just to remind you who you really are and how to love yourself.”
Linda, New Hampshire
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
How in the world may I wrap the proper words around all that you have given me since May 1, 2007?
POOF – GONE! All those tedious, self-destructive, frustrating and bewildering cravings for alcohol – gone – in literally a matter of hours. I am still in disbelief and jaw-dropping awe over what you accomplished with me and for me.
If this note may help just one person to make the decision to visit with you, my heart will be happy. Regardless of how one discovers you, it is a path destined to happen. Personally, I was scanning AM radio while driving; came upon “The Frankie Boyer Show” (health/talk-show) while Frankie was interviewing you (Rhonda) about your techniques, as well as praising your works with folks from all walks of life and addictions. I was captivated; looked up the radio station, contacted Frankie and within three weeks I was in Vermont – enroute to freedom – and meeting you!
Rhonda, all of the incredible testimonials and eloquent words and phrases that others have shared with you are so true and sincere; I echo everyone in espousing your gifts, talents, techniques, love and concern for all the lives you have touched.
Barry, your kind consideration, compassion and professionalism truly goes hand-in-hand with Rhonda and all that she accomplishes; together, you are an incredible, loving team; I applaud you for all that you do.
Unburdened and free at last, it is with gratitude and love that I share my understated ‘thank you’.”
“Dear Rhonda and Barry, I just wanted to let you know I am doing great. I have never felt better in my life. I have not had the urge to drink any kind of alcohol. I have a lot more energy and have lost weight. Thank you so much for helping me with my problem, my life couldn’t be better.
As a stressed-out lawyer, I am writing to attest to the powerful influence that Rhonda Lenair’s healing touch has had on my life. As a single parent with a high-powered practice, I was caught for many years in a cycle of stress, anxiety and drinking too much. The majority of people I knew who had been treated with traditional therapies had to constantly dedicate extensive amounts of time to sessions or meetings in order to deal with their ongoing cravings. Most learned to modify their behavior, but continued to battle daily with the underlying addiction.
I first heard of Rhonda Lenair through a colleague whose friend had immediately ended a 20-year drinking habit after seeing Rhonda. In 2005, I was treated by Rhonda in 3 short, gentle, loving, hands-on treatments. Following the first treatment, I had no desire to drink, but to my great surprise, my anxiety had all but disappeared. In all of the treatments, Rhonda was able to identify specific physical and emotional imbalances in my system, and readjust them. The sense of relief and peace I have enjoyed since then has been life-changing. Most importantly, I no longer have cravings for alcohol; it is just not a part of my consciousness.
Whether one views Rhonda’s ability as miraculous, or considers in a scientific way as an energy-based realignment, her treatments are safe, effective and permanent. I would urge anyone who has a substance abuse problem, extreme anxiety, or other out of control issues to seek the well-being and peace that Rhonda offers.
Patricia H., RN, MSM, Pennsylvania
Hi Barry and Rhonda,
It has been over two years since my visit to Lenair. Since this visit, I have been free of the desire for alcohol and have absolutely no craving or psychological draw to it what so ever. I could care less about it. You have truly worked a miracle. I thought that my case was unique because I had a pattern of long periods of sobriety between “slips”. Clearly, I am no different from anyone with a problem with alcohol.
You have given me freedom from the obsessive thoughts about alcohol and staying sober. You have given me freedom from the never ending cycle of sobriety, relapse, feeling guilty and shameful and back into “recovery again”. You have given me freedom from seeing myself as a failure and a weak person. You have ended this fruitless pattern that had no end and no help for me. It consumed my life before I met both of you. My problem has been removed from the root and my mind has no positive memories of alcohol or it’s effects on me.
I could thank you daily until the end of my days and it would never be enough. You have truly worked a miracle. Rhonda, I am so glad you listened to your inner voice and followed this most remarkable path. You are way ahead of your time. I am eternally grateful and thankful to have met you and come to experience you as well.
Dear Rhonda and Barry,
Funny that your email came yesterday because I have been thinking about you a lot lately and intending to write a letter of my gratitude this Thanksgiving. I am so grateful to be living my life without alcohol and tobacco and owe this freedom to your miraculous healing powers. I am thrilled that my husband subsequently made the decision to see you for his alcohol addiction and will say that in our 32 years of marriage, we have never been happier together. I just don’t know how to thank you…
In addition, we are so thrilled that our dear friend Brad made the decision to come see you in Vermont. His healing has been nothing short of miraculous as well. What a gift you have given us all and we are truly, truly thankful.
I hope this email finds you both well – Happy Thanksgiving!
Kevin, New Hampshire
“Ten years ago, a group of ten employees from the company I was working for signed up with Rhonda Lenair to undergo her program to quit smoking. To this day, it is my understanding that nine of us are still smoke free. The experience was really quite remarkable, whatever it was; I cannot really explain it, but it worked. There were no cravings or desires to pick up a cigarette at all.
Recently, I ended up in the hospital several times due to my problems with alcohol. Knowing how well the program for smoking worked and my desire to live on this planet at least a while longer, I looked online for Rhonda Lenair and was successful in finding her. I wasted no time getting in touch with Barry and scheduled an appointment ASAP. On March 13th I went in for my first of three sessions. WOW! I went from consuming close to a 30 pack of beer a day on my own, to feeling like a new me with no desire for any alcohol, no withdrawals, nothing but feeling clean and sober. Before this experience, I also did occasionally puff a little marijuana and that desire was also gone. I was really liking the feeling of having such a clear head (it had been quite a long time since I had felt this way). I felt as though I did not need the other two sessions, but really looked forward to seeing Rhonda again if just to have that wonderful feeling that I had when leaving a session.
Rhonda has a gift that if possible should be shared with everyone that suffers from an addiction or medical problem. It truly is almost unexplainable. My family and friends just cannot believe that after over 25 years of drowning myself with alcohol, that boom, it is over. What did she do? How is it possible? Are you sure this is you?
She gave me back my life. After 3 marriages and 3 divorces and losing some friends along the way, I no longer have room in my life for drinking. I am still involved in situations where there is a lot of drinking going on, but I do not drink anymore. I have time for all the other things that are going on around me.
Well, thank you ever so much, Barry and Rhonda, and may the Lord bless you both now and in the future, and may some more Dear Souls be blessed enough to be touched and blessed by you.”
“Hello Rhonda, I realize this must be one of thousands of e-mails that you must receive expressing gratitude, however, I must join the ranks. I am truly grateful to you for the work you are performing as it has truly provided me with “a peace that surpasses all understanding.” I have been practicing advanced techniques of the Tm “TM Sidhis” and have achieved a sustainable state of functioning with my alcoholism, however, until my sessions with you earlier this week I never knew the connectedness and oneness that I have only understood on an intellectual level. I express my deepest gratitude for you sharing your healing work with the world.
I understand the changes that are occurring in our cosmos and am excited to be living at this time to be a part of it. I was unable to move forward, however, and it experience it at the deepest levels until I rid myself of the many slips with alcohol. I understand the purity that one must have in one’s system to have the total experience.
Please know that I am available to you as you bring forth this knowledge to assist in any way. If I can help facilitate your work, that would bring me great joy. I also want to say (as you are probably already aware) that I have a great desire to learn more about how I can help others in the healing process.
Once again, my deepest gratitude…
Love and Light,”
Dear Ms. Lenair:
I wish to express my profound gratitude to you and the Foundation for providing treatment to me recently. My addiction to alcohol had brought me to a place where I was unable to afford any more treatment and my life looked fairly hopeless. Despite knowing that alcohol was killing me, I was unable to abstain for more than a few days. I tried many modes of recovery including AA, Rational Recovery, Smart Recovery, nutritional supplements and willpower and nothing put more than a momentary halt to my behavior. When I did abstain, I spent hours obsessing about drinking. Each morning would begin with resolutions NOT to drink, but that was just a way of thinking about drinking that would almost always lead, by afternoon, to my driving to the liquor store.
Your treatment has changed my life in many ways. The most remarkable change is that I no longer obsess about alcohol throughout the day. That is not to say that I never think about it – but certainly no more than I think about many other things. I think that this is almost more liberating than not drinking itself.
I don’t rationally understand your method. I just know that for now it is working for me. I am very grateful to you for providing me this opportunity to resume my life. I feel blessed that I was given another chance. I will tell anyone in need about you, and if I am ever able I will make a donation to the Foundation so that someone else may have the same opportunity.
Thank you again.
“I sought out Rhonda Lenair a few years ago to treat my alcoholism and my visits with her have had a profound influence on my life. As of this day, April 11, 2000, I have not had a drink or a craving for one, for 3 years and 8 months. I drank hard for 15 years and had ferocious, incessant cravings for alcohol. Rhonda lifted this terrible burden and I am now free of this ruinous addiction. Since seeing Rhonda, I am a transformed man. I am now able to engage in activities (such as long term traveling) that were not possible while I was still drinking. Rhonda, I am forever grateful to you.”
“Just wanted to say hello and thank you once again for ending my craving for alcohol. A week ago was my 5-year anniversary of not having consumed/desired a drink of alcohol. My sobriety and new lease on life is entirely due to you. Rhonda, you are an amazing person who spectacularly changed my life for the better. Mere words will never be able to express my gratefulness.
I hope you are healthy and enjoying your life. All the best to you and Barry.”
“Ciao, Rhonda and Barry,
I send warm greetings from Italy where I’ve enjoyed a superb trip visiting Rome, Florence, and Siena. It has been 10 years and 2.5 months since I’ve had a drink or experienced a craving for alcohol. Rhonda’s treatment for my alcohol saved my life. I am eternally grateful and wish you all the best!”
“Hola, Rhonda and Barry!
Aaaah … the passage of time – it’s been 11 1/2 years since I’ve had a drink or craved alcohol. My sobriety is entirely due to Rhonda’s wonderful work. I’m currently in Cartagena, Columbia – an enchanting, historical city. I’ve very much enjoyed my trip to Columbia – have been white-water rafting (class 4+5), paragliding (my first time – amazing), and visited some beautiful colonial towns (Villa de Leyva and Barichara).
C. K., Massachusetts
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You have succeeded where others have failed. You have done what no other person, place or organization could do for me. You have allowed me freedom from addiction.
You have taken what I consider to be the worst case of alcoholism, the most treatment-resistant, non-yielding manifestation of the “disease” I have ever known (mine) and given me a breath and a chance to breathe.
I have been in recovery since 1993 and I’ve done the work faithfully, but it’s been either 1) on a good day, simple misery or 2) on a bad day, pain beyond imagining. So you have no idea how much of a relief you provided.
I believe in you and I have never believed in anyone or any treatment for this killer of a “disease”.
Thank you beyond words,”