Read Client Stories – Excessive Drinking
There are scores of people who have graciously shared their Self(s) Healing miracles and opinions of overcoming many obstacles that blocked inner peace, or other miraculous transformations that have occurred. We hope you take the time to watch, listen and read. Feel the heart of all SHE offers through their words.
Since 1987, the year Rhonda Lenair began offering her ministration that evolved into what is known today as the Self(s) Healing Experience™ SHE, scores of people have sent Rhonda and her late husband Barry their unsolicited letters of gratitude. Many people have expressed their desire to share their stories, and personal accounts of what they witnessed with Rhonda.
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Hi Barry and Rhonda,
It has been over two years since my visit to Lenair. Since this visit, I have been free of the desire for alcohol and have absolutely no craving or psychological draw to it what so ever. I could care less about it. You have truly worked a miracle. I thought that my case was unique because I had a pattern of long periods of sobriety between “slips”. Clearly, I am no different from anyone with a problem with alcohol.
You have given me freedom from the obsessive thoughts about alcohol and staying sober. You have given me freedom from the never ending cycle of sobriety, relapse, feeling guilty and shameful and back into “recovery again”. You have given me freedom from seeing myself as a failure and a weak person. You have ended this fruitless pattern that had no end and no help for me. It consumed my life before I met both of you. My problem has been removed from the root and my mind has no positive memories of alcohol or it’s effects on me.
I could thank you daily until the end of my days and it would never be enough. You have truly worked a miracle. Rhonda, I am so glad you listened to your inner voice and followed this most remarkable path. You are way ahead of your time. I am eternally grateful and thankful to have met you and come to experience you as well.
Dear Rhonda and Barry,
Funny that your email came yesterday because I have been thinking about you a lot lately and intending to write a letter of my gratitude this Thanksgiving. I am so grateful to be living my life without alcohol and tobacco and owe this freedom to your miraculous healing powers. I am thrilled that my husband subsequently made the decision to see you for his alcohol addiction and will say that in our 32 years of marriage, we have never been happier together. I just don’t know how to thank you…
In addition, we are so thrilled that our dear friend Brad made the decision to come see you in Vermont. His healing has been nothing short of miraculous as well. What a gift you have given us all and we are truly, truly thankful.
I hope this email finds you both well – Happy Thanksgiving!
Kevin, New Hampshire
“Ten years ago, a group of ten employees from the company I was working for signed up with Rhonda Lenair to undergo her program to quit smoking. To this day, it is my understanding that nine of us are still smoke free. The experience was really quite remarkable, whatever it was; I cannot really explain it, but it worked. There were no cravings or desires to pick up a cigarette at all.
Recently, I ended up in the hospital several times due to my problems with alcohol. Knowing how well the program for smoking worked and my desire to live on this planet at least a while longer, I looked online for Rhonda Lenair and was successful in finding her. I wasted no time getting in touch with Barry and scheduled an appointment ASAP. On March 13th I went in for my first of three sessions. WOW! I went from consuming close to a 30 pack of beer a day on my own, to feeling like a new me with no desire for any alcohol, no withdrawals, nothing but feeling clean and sober. Before this experience, I also did occasionally puff a little marijuana and that desire was also gone. I was really liking the feeling of having such a clear head (it had been quite a long time since I had felt this way). I felt as though I did not need the other two sessions, but really looked forward to seeing Rhonda again if just to have that wonderful feeling that I had when leaving a session.
Rhonda has a gift that if possible should be shared with everyone that suffers from an addiction or medical problem. It truly is almost unexplainable. My family and friends just cannot believe that after over 25 years of drowning myself with alcohol, that boom, it is over. What did she do? How is it possible? Are you sure this is you?
She gave me back my life. After 3 marriages and 3 divorces and losing some friends along the way, I no longer have room in my life for drinking. I am still involved in situations where there is a lot of drinking going on, but I do not drink anymore. I have time for all the other things that are going on around me.
Well, thank you ever so much, Barry and Rhonda, and may the Lord bless you both now and in the future, and may some more Dear Souls be blessed enough to be touched and blessed by you.”
“Hello Rhonda, I realize this must be one of thousands of e-mails that you must receive expressing gratitude, however, I must join the ranks. I am truly grateful to you for the work you are performing as it has truly provided me with “a peace that surpasses all understanding.” I have been practicing advanced techniques of the Tm “TM Sidhis” and have achieved a sustainable state of functioning with my alcoholism, however, until my sessions with you earlier this week I never knew the connectedness and oneness that I have only understood on an intellectual level. I express my deepest gratitude for you sharing your healing work with the world.
I understand the changes that are occurring in our cosmos and am excited to be living at this time to be a part of it. I was unable to move forward, however, and it experience it at the deepest levels until I rid myself of the many slips with alcohol. I understand the purity that one must have in one’s system to have the total experience.
Please know that I am available to you as you bring forth this knowledge to assist in any way. If I can help facilitate your work, that would bring me great joy. I also want to say (as you are probably already aware) that I have a great desire to learn more about how I can help others in the healing process.
Once again, my deepest gratitude…
Love and Light,”
Dear Ms. Lenair:
I wish to express my profound gratitude to you and the Foundation for providing treatment to me recently. My addiction to alcohol had brought me to a place where I was unable to afford any more treatment and my life looked fairly hopeless. Despite knowing that alcohol was killing me, I was unable to abstain for more than a few days. I tried many modes of recovery including AA, Rational Recovery, Smart Recovery, nutritional supplements and willpower and nothing put more than a momentary halt to my behavior. When I did abstain, I spent hours obsessing about drinking. Each morning would begin with resolutions NOT to drink, but that was just a way of thinking about drinking that would almost always lead, by afternoon, to my driving to the liquor store.
Your treatment has changed my life in many ways. The most remarkable change is that I no longer obsess about alcohol throughout the day. That is not to say that I never think about it – but certainly no more than I think about many other things. I think that this is almost more liberating than not drinking itself.
I don’t rationally understand your method. I just know that for now it is working for me. I am very grateful to you for providing me this opportunity to resume my life. I feel blessed that I was given another chance. I will tell anyone in need about you, and if I am ever able I will make a donation to the Foundation so that someone else may have the same opportunity.
Thank you again.
“I sought out Rhonda Lenair a few years ago to treat my alcoholism and my visits with her have had a profound influence on my life. As of this day, April 11, 2000, I have not had a drink or a craving for one, for 3 years and 8 months. I drank hard for 15 years and had ferocious, incessant cravings for alcohol. Rhonda lifted this terrible burden and I am now free of this ruinous addiction. Since seeing Rhonda, I am a transformed man. I am now able to engage in activities (such as long term traveling) that were not possible while I was still drinking. Rhonda, I am forever grateful to you.”
“Just wanted to say hello and thank you once again for ending my craving for alcohol. A week ago was my 5-year anniversary of not having consumed/desired a drink of alcohol. My sobriety and new lease on life is entirely due to you. Rhonda, you are an amazing person who spectacularly changed my life for the better. Mere words will never be able to express my gratefulness.
I hope you are healthy and enjoying your life. All the best to you and Barry.”
“Ciao, Rhonda and Barry,
I send warm greetings from Italy where I’ve enjoyed a superb trip visiting Rome, Florence, and Siena. It has been 10 years and 2.5 months since I’ve had a drink or experienced a craving for alcohol. Rhonda’s treatment for my alcohol saved my life. I am eternally grateful and wish you all the best!”
“Hola, Rhonda and Barry!
Aaaah … the passage of time – it’s been 11 1/2 years since I’ve had a drink or craved alcohol. My sobriety is entirely due to Rhonda’s wonderful work. I’m currently in Cartagena, Columbia – an enchanting, historical city. I’ve very much enjoyed my trip to Columbia – have been white-water rafting (class 4+5), paragliding (my first time – amazing), and visited some beautiful colonial towns (Villa de Leyva and Barichara).
C. K., Massachusetts
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You have succeeded where others have failed. You have done what no other person, place or organization could do for me. You have allowed me freedom from addiction.
You have taken what I consider to be the worst case of alcoholism, the most treatment-resistant, non-yielding manifestation of the “disease” I have ever known (mine) and given me a breath and a chance to breathe.
I have been in recovery since 1993 and I’ve done the work faithfully, but it’s been either 1) on a good day, simple misery or 2) on a bad day, pain beyond imagining. So you have no idea how much of a relief you provided.
I believe in you and I have never believed in anyone or any treatment for this killer of a “disease”.
Thank you beyond words,”