Read Client Stories – Excessive Drinking
There are scores of people who have graciously shared their Self(s) Healing miracles and opinions of overcoming many obstacles that blocked inner peace, or other miraculous transformations that have occurred. We hope you take the time to watch, listen and read. Feel the heart of all SHE offers through their words.
Since 1987, the year Rhonda Lenair began offering her ministration that evolved into what is known today as the Self(s) Healing Experience™ SHE, scores of people have sent Rhonda and her late husband Barry their unsolicited letters of gratitude. Many people have expressed their desire to share their stories, and personal accounts of what they witnessed with Rhonda.
The purpose of including these Experiential Reports is to acknowledge and thank all the people who have shared their personal stories and opinions. As you read these reports, do not misconstrue that what SHE offers is an addiction treatment or therapy service: it is not. SHE is a nonmedical experience that primes one to attain Self(s) enlightenment and its objective is to attain inner peace. These reports are not intended to make any claims that this website and/or SHE can be used to diagnose, treat, mitigate, cure or prevent any emotional or mental problem or disease, medical condition or addiction.
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P. Peterson, Vermont
“Being treated by Rhonda was one of those monumental life-changing experiences that I’ll never forget and also be grateful for. She is accurate, compassionate and truly cares about the outcome. It took Rhonda 20 minutes to turn around my over 20-year-old addiction to alcohol. I am forever grateful.”
L. Hodges, Texas
“Barry and Rhonda,
You are a miracle, an absolute miracle! I was very skeptical about coming to see you. When my sister told me about you I thought to myself, there is no way you could help me. I honestly believed no one could help me.
My background has been a long history of alcohol abuse. I have survived two head-on collisions where I went through the windshield. I survived two treatment centers, several DWI’s, a wrecked marriage, and the list goes on. I was at the point in my life that I could not stop drinking. I was going through a difficult time in my relationship with a wonderful man that I lived with for 13 years, my job was stressful and I was losing my best friend. AA was a drag and that program did not seem to help. I drank; I lost and received another DWI.
I guess my sister knew I was at my lowest point and knew that something had to be done. She saw your article in Elle magazine and decided to call. When she told me about you, I thought that you were a fake, another person to take my money and not help me. My sister assured me you were real and it wouldn’t hurt just to go see what the program was all about. Really, what have you got to lose? We can make it a vacation. So off we went, bravely, after September 11th.
When I first met you, Rhonda, I really didn’t feel any connection. I was still very skeptical. After the first session, I felt good. That evening, I did not want a drink at dinner. The second session, you told me events that happened early in life, people that I knew, etc. I certainly had not talked to you about anything in my life. You told me to go get my lungs x-rayed because it showed scarring. I didn’t believe you on that issue, but sure enough, my lungs were scarred. After the third session I was a believer but still skeptical that I would get back home and start drinking again.
I went to see Rhonda on February 8, 2002. I am happy to announce that I have not had a drink since then. I still have urges to drink, but they last only a minute, then I forget about them. I am eating healthier and feel much better. I guess the only downfall is I have this craving for sweets. I guess a few pounds is better than killing someone or myself!
I was a hopeless case and everyone had given up on me. I thank you, Rhonda, for giving me back my life! If you ever need a testimonial, I am the one. I am your miracle!
J. Anderson, Ohio
It has been 2 years to the day, I have not had a drink. This is will be my first testimonial ever written.
I am not sure how or what Ms. Lenair (Self) does but it works. The experience is not just what is ailing you, it is moving as a whole.
The experience at the Lenair clinic has forever changed me for the better. I am clear and balanced to ‘do’ in life, take action.
I will forever be humbled by the enlightenment I received and will always pass it along.
Hi Rhonda and Barry:
I have not spoken with you in a while now and I just wanted to take a moment to let you know how I am doing since my last visit to Vermont. I am so very happy to report that I have been alcohol free now for over a year!! Its simply amazing. My life has profoundly changed now that I am free from alcohol.
Making the decision to seek your help was the most important decision of my life because it saved my life. I cannot fully explain just what happened to me. However, what I do know is that after I left your office I no longer had any desire to drink. It vanished.
Note: I drank heavily for my entire life starting from age 15 to 52 — 37 years. I did not drink everyday – but most every day – I went to several different treatment centers- nothing seemed to work– alcohol was ruining my life and the down hill slide was rapidly accelerating. But that all changed on January 30 2009- that’s the day I lost my drinking problem- Rhonda you saved me that day.
I have certainly changed on the both inside and outside. In the past year I lost about 80 pounds. Now that I no longer have to deal with alcohol, I really place close attention on what I put in my body. I have been closely following the diet recommendations Rhonda outlined- its something I just do and it seems to have worked quite well for me.
I also, as part of a recommendation that Rhonda outlined, have been practicing Tai Chi. I found an excellent teacher in my area and have been studying over a year- about 1 hour a day on average. That seems to balance things out nicely.
I would STRONGLY encourage anyone seeking help to take the step and make an appointment with you. Don’t waste anymore time do it as soon as possible- Life is short and you might run out of chances—-
Thank you so much and I hope to talk with you soon.
Dear Barry and Rhonda,
Things are going wonderful here! I’m in the process of moving back home….Yay! I haven’t felt this good in years. You’ve helped me find such contentment.
My new life style changes are going VERY well. I am even down to only one medication for depression. No anxiety meds, no sleep meds, no non-alcohol meds, and no mood altering meds!!!! The Pranic healing and Qigong are so fascinating. I have even been taking classes again at my friend Victoria’s shop (spiritual, awakening, zen stuff) and getting intuitive massage. Finally getting mySELF back. I’ve even lost some weight already; bonus!
Here’s my new mantra I made; Love and Light in your Heart, bring Peace and Harmony to your Soul….
I hope you are both doing well. There hasn’t been a day go by when I don’t think of you both and, know that I am truly blessed for having found you. I’ll give you both a call the first week of March to find out if Rhonda still wants me to add horse chestnut to my supplement list.
Love & Light,
Bill, New Hampshire
Hi Rhonda and Barry:
I was thinking of you today as I realized I have been alcohol free for over 6 years. When I saw an article about Rhonda in the Boston Herald, I decided to give her a try. Everything else had failed for me. I have to admit I was extremely skeptical of her process as I really didn’t understand how she could help me to stop my alcohol addiction. But she did. It was like a miracle. Today I am a retired Federal worker and employed as a Professor at a prestigious college in Boston. This was always a dream of mine to be a College Professor. Also, I am involved with a wonderful women. Without Rhonda’s help, I am sure this would not have been possible as I would have been to dedicated to drinking every day.
Thank you for saving my life.
“When I was a little girl, I often fantasized about a fairy godmother appearing into my life and, with the touch of her magic wand, would take all my problems away. My fantasy finally came true when Rhonda placed her hands upon my head for a few powerful moments. To my disbelief, she freed me up from a devastating alcohol dependency.
My cravings were gone and my desire to drink on a daily basis, until totally intoxicated, vanished during that magical time. She gave me back my life and another chance to rediscover myself without the fear of relapsing into old patterns.
For this fresh start, I am eternally grateful to you and Barry. I especially admire you, Rhonda, for the courage you have to be who you are and for sharing your gift of love with mankind.”
“Call it a stroke of luck, synchronicity or Divine Providence but my running across the Lenair Healing Center’s website with it’s testimonials and audio of Rhonda’s inscrutable but deeply moving message, was an “aha” moment of the purest sort.
I had woken at 3am, as was my nightly ritual, unable to get back to sleep. This predictable 2-3 hour of torturous shame and self-loathing afforded a regular opportunity to indulge in a Googling frenzy of “alternative and alcoholism” or “holistic and addiction”; to meditate on my shortcomings as well as those of my family members, friends and colleague; to make plenty of resolutions to quit drinking for certain tomorrow; to worry about the state of my liver, brain, kidneys and general health; and to wonder how all the clients who come to me on their own non-traditional healing path would react if they knew I understood and experienced suffering in such a personal and first hand way. Probably with more compassion than I was capable of extending to myself, I realize now.
The next morning, I could hear the sensitivity and good nature in Barry’s voice as he made my appointment and gave me directions and instructions. I read and re-read the brochure filled with testimonials he sent and intuitively had a sense that “this is it” although I had been disappointed many times in the past with other therapies that did wonderful things, but didn’t cure my addiction. After struggling for 45 years with alcohol and the nuances of keeping the extent of that struggle a secret from everyone in my life, something was different with this process.
So, I showed up. My husband accompanied me, a bit bewildered and skeptical at first, but soon to be amazed at the simplicity of the process.
Rhonda opened up that deep well of universal love that you can see in her eyes as she explains the simple process of touching your forehead and speaking your truth as it comes through her, and the desire for anything but that truth disappears immediately. Gone. Forever.
In case you forget it, she’ll talk to you for a few minutes once in a while, just to remind you who you really are and how to love yourself.”
Linda, New Hampshire
“Dear Rhonda and Barry,
How in the world may I wrap the proper words around all that you have given me since May 1, 2007?
POOF – GONE! All those tedious, self-destructive, frustrating and bewildering cravings for alcohol – gone – in literally a matter of hours. I am still in disbelief and jaw-dropping awe over what you accomplished with me and for me.
If this note may help just one person to make the decision to visit with you, my heart will be happy. Regardless of how one discovers you, it is a path destined to happen. Personally, I was scanning AM radio while driving; came upon “The Frankie Boyer Show” (health/talk-show) while Frankie was interviewing you (Rhonda) about your techniques, as well as praising your works with folks from all walks of life and addictions. I was captivated; looked up the radio station, contacted Frankie and within three weeks I was in Vermont – enroute to freedom – and meeting you!
Rhonda, all of the incredible testimonials and eloquent words and phrases that others have shared with you are so true and sincere; I echo everyone in espousing your gifts, talents, techniques, love and concern for all the lives you have touched.
Barry, your kind consideration, compassion and professionalism truly goes hand-in-hand with Rhonda and all that she accomplishes; together, you are an incredible, loving team; I applaud you for all that you do.
Unburdened and free at last, it is with gratitude and love that I share my understated ‘thank you’.”
“Dear Rhonda and Barry, I just wanted to let you know I am doing great. I have never felt better in my life. I have not had the urge to drink any kind of alcohol. I have a lot more energy and have lost weight. Thank you so much for helping me with my problem, my life couldn’t be better.